I'm trying out something new today: a guest blog. I've had several requests by people I don't know to write a guest blog, normally trying to plug something I don't use and am not interested in. Melanie Bowen contacted me about a guest post because she is trying to raise awareness of ways of dealing with serious diseases such as cancer.
She writes for the Mesothelioma Cancer Alliance blog but I asked her to make her post appropriate for a more general audience which she kindly has. So here is her guest post which, she says "encompasses the idea and importance of inspiration and
self-motivation. Every illness has its limitations, but I firmly believe that
goals and positivity go hand in hand on an individual’s path to healing and
quality of life. I have linked to reputable courses and studies in this field
and have tailored the article to encompass those ideas."
I thought it worth sharing, so thank you Melanie for getting in touch.
I thought it worth sharing, so thank you Melanie for getting in touch.
Being diagnosed with a serious condition can severely upset your life. Diseases such as chronic asthma, arthritis, mesothelioma and other cancers, and even diabetes often have a serious prognosis that can lead a person to feel depressed or lose focus in life. However, it is more important than ever to have focus and a drive to succeed through these diseases.
Catalog and log your desires in anyway
possible. One of the best ways is through a blog. Blogs offer many advantages
that normal journals do not. For example, you can share your desires with other
interested blogger. Bloggers can cheer you on and give you the support you need
to succeed when you are low on energy, focus and desire. Why not start a personal blog for yourself or public blog today?
Blogging can actually be good for your
health as well. Dr. Alice Flaherty from the Harvard University and
Massachusetts General Hospital says that blogging helps a person feel better
about their condition due to the "the placebo theory of suffering."
She states that logging desires and "complaining" about your condition
creates a placebo effect of feeling better and more satisfied. It can help
eliminate stress which can contribute to worsening health conditions, loss of
sleep, tension, neurotic behaviors and mood swings.
A blog of your desires and wishes can work
kind of like a reminder to help you stay focused on your goals. Writing about
your goals every day and discussing their progress motivates you forward and
helps keep your mind of your disease. One of the most important things to do
when you have a serious condition is to try to rise above it. Focusing on your
goals, such as your New Year resolutions to lose weight, quit smoking or take
less pain medication daily can help you rise above your disease and be a
stronger, more motivated person.
However, a blog should not be a place where
you complain about your life and your disease. Instead, you should try to
occasionally focus on positive aspects of your life that lie outside of your disease. For example, if you are working
towards a promotion at work, track this goal's progress in your blog. This goal
has nothing to do with your disease but is an important part of your life. Try
to focus less and less on your disease and your condition as you write in your
blog.
The essential goal of your blog should be
to help you rise above the daily concerns and worries associated with your
condition. Rising above these concerns will help relax your mind, focus it on
more interesting aspects of your life and help you avoid being defined by your
disease. Make your blog a healing, healthy place.